This is the shit I want to do before I die. Call it a bucket list if you would like, but to me it’s just a list of aspirations and dreams.

01. Get arrested

02. Meet Anderson Cooper in person

03. Get my body in shape to my liking

04. Run a marathon

05. Live in NYC for at least 2 years

06. Visit (Live in?) Sydney, Australia

07. Sing at a Karaoke Night

08. Get a legal marriage license with someone I love

09. Get a college degree

10. Get something published

11. Take a trip to England

12. Become a strong professional in my career field

13. Have dinner on the beach with someone

14. Go on a real date with a guy I like

15. Learn to play guitar

16. Play guitar (see #18) at an open mic night

17. Write a song

18. Start a public Vlog

19. Meet Lady Gaga

20. Get my bartenders license and wedding/event planning certificate

21. Pull together a cookbook

22. Get my tattooing finished

23. Visit Paris

24. Travel around Europe with someone

25. Visit Las Vegas

26. Get atleast a 3.0

27. Tell my dad I’m gay without having to worrying about the consequences

28. Have a real Valentine’s Day

29. Donate a total of 100 volunteer hours to anything

30. Ride a mechanical bull

31. Get drunk with my mom

32. Host a 200+ person party

33. Stay over night at a “haunted” site

34. Think of an idea that turns into a web based phenomenon

35. Adopt at least one child with my partner

36. Make my life my own.

37. Tell my father exactly how messed up he caused me to be and how terrible of a rolemodel he is. And that I am, and always will be, better than him.

38. Open my own event planning business that specializes in weddings and high profile events.

39. Get kissed in the rain.

40. Start a non-profit kids camp geared at LGBT youth to build relationships with their peers and show them its okay to be different.

41. See Cirque du Soleil live.

42. Make a difference.

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